when did guys start thinking starring at a girl like she just grew a third tit and saying "oh my god" or "holy shit" were appropriate pick up attempts?
come on guys! have you really gotten THAT lazy and unoriginal?
don't get me wrong-i have no imminent need or want for the stereotypical 'romance' and over-eccentric gestures-at least not the kind guys expect girls to pine for. but a little chivalry would be an improvement or at least an attempt to make yourself appear to have some form of substance.
you.look.ridiculous.
like a caveman.
a caveman with a penis for a brain.
actually scratch that-a caveman with a penis and no brain.
when you cat call us, hoot, hollar, stare, lick your lips and you see us smile slyly-were not putting out an omission of joy pertaining to your "advances"-we are containing our laughter resulting from your overly premature assumptions that we enjoy your ron jeremy-esque type of approach. we will go on to tell our friends and co-workers "some complete loser tried to get my attention today by...-insert demeaning, ineffective pick up line here-..."
and then we all laugh. a lot.
i have been working promotions for beer, bars, sports games, etc for the past two years and if its anything i've gained experience in-its not so much sales or public speaking, learning how to carry 10 beers on a tray while wearing 5 inch heels and offering my knowledgable opinion on the recent sportscentre highlights while trying to look cute-but, basically, men in a nutshell.
so men in a nutshell; oversexed-aggressive-misled.
why misled you say?
example: i recently worked a promotion at a bar in toronto. i'm standing there mingling in the crowd of bar-goers and this guy-tall, good looking,confident- approaches me and the first words out of his mouth were "holy shit" and his eyes obviously grazing a certain pair of assets. thinking i was enticed by his opener, he continued to re iterate to me how much money he really had "yeah i drive a 2010 BMW 5 series-that's my summer car..."
how do you say "i don't give a flying fuck if you drive a lotus or a childrens tonka truck. get a life." without sounding like a complete bitch?
yeah I didn't know either; therefore i just looked at him like he had just admitted his love for zoophilia or robbing old women. yet...he continued. persistent as fuck.
thats one thing i will give men some credit for; persistence and dedication. most people would see the look of utter dismay and disgust on my face and peace out of the 2x2 area i was standing in...but not mr.bmw-he apparently just assumed he hadn't bragged enough about his money. or just spoke in general. constantly. never stopping/giving up.
needless to say-he did not get anything but a sympathetic smile from this girl.
i realise there are women out there who 'gold-dig'-but im not one- and most legitimate and intelligent woman arent. the 21st century has seen a rise in salaries for women of all careers, as well as an increase in independence, sexual liberation and opportunities. so as beyonce would say "Tell Me how you feel about this try to Control me boy you get dismissed pay my Own fun, oh I pay my own bills."
If guys just realised that an honest, non aggressive, non sexually oriented pick up line or gesture would impress a girl ten times more than your ever popular car honk/whistle/call, etc.
Remember: We're not mindless cattle.
So guys; step it up. use your imagination. we'll dig it.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3tomJNpB-30
come on guys! have you really gotten THAT lazy and unoriginal?
don't get me wrong-i have no imminent need or want for the stereotypical 'romance' and over-eccentric gestures-at least not the kind guys expect girls to pine for. but a little chivalry would be an improvement or at least an attempt to make yourself appear to have some form of substance.
you.look.ridiculous.
like a caveman.
a caveman with a penis for a brain.
actually scratch that-a caveman with a penis and no brain.
when you cat call us, hoot, hollar, stare, lick your lips and you see us smile slyly-were not putting out an omission of joy pertaining to your "advances"-we are containing our laughter resulting from your overly premature assumptions that we enjoy your ron jeremy-esque type of approach. we will go on to tell our friends and co-workers "some complete loser tried to get my attention today by...-insert demeaning, ineffective pick up line here-..."
and then we all laugh. a lot.
i have been working promotions for beer, bars, sports games, etc for the past two years and if its anything i've gained experience in-its not so much sales or public speaking, learning how to carry 10 beers on a tray while wearing 5 inch heels and offering my knowledgable opinion on the recent sportscentre highlights while trying to look cute-but, basically, men in a nutshell.
so men in a nutshell; oversexed-aggressive-misled.
why misled you say?
example: i recently worked a promotion at a bar in toronto. i'm standing there mingling in the crowd of bar-goers and this guy-tall, good looking,confident- approaches me and the first words out of his mouth were "holy shit" and his eyes obviously grazing a certain pair of assets. thinking i was enticed by his opener, he continued to re iterate to me how much money he really had "yeah i drive a 2010 BMW 5 series-that's my summer car..."
how do you say "i don't give a flying fuck if you drive a lotus or a childrens tonka truck. get a life." without sounding like a complete bitch?
yeah I didn't know either; therefore i just looked at him like he had just admitted his love for zoophilia or robbing old women. yet...he continued. persistent as fuck.
thats one thing i will give men some credit for; persistence and dedication. most people would see the look of utter dismay and disgust on my face and peace out of the 2x2 area i was standing in...but not mr.bmw-he apparently just assumed he hadn't bragged enough about his money. or just spoke in general. constantly. never stopping/giving up.
needless to say-he did not get anything but a sympathetic smile from this girl.
i realise there are women out there who 'gold-dig'-but im not one- and most legitimate and intelligent woman arent. the 21st century has seen a rise in salaries for women of all careers, as well as an increase in independence, sexual liberation and opportunities. so as beyonce would say "Tell Me how you feel about this try to Control me boy you get dismissed pay my Own fun, oh I pay my own bills."
If guys just realised that an honest, non aggressive, non sexually oriented pick up line or gesture would impress a girl ten times more than your ever popular car honk/whistle/call, etc.
Remember: We're not mindless cattle.
So guys; step it up. use your imagination. we'll dig it.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3tomJNpB-30
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